Apache, MySQL, and memcached, with a little lighttpd thrown in for static fun.
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Lol Malgayne's fault ^^
What you need is someone to do User Experience Optimizations, I looked at what comes to the user, and I noted several points of problems that are leading to your 5+ second load event time.A couple of videos you should check out about browser performance.